Much to both of our delights, in 2011 I fell hard. In 2011 she tried again, this time skipping season one and starting with season two. This girlfriend of mine knew that I just needed time and patience, and that eventually I would fall fangs over feet in love with the series. She knew (as any true fan of Buffy knows) that there are two kinds of people in this world: Those who love Buffy and those who won’t allow themselves to love Buffy. Just a few episodes in, I confessed: “I like making out with you and I cannot watch this show anymore.”ĭespite my fears, she didn’t break up with me. I wanted to love it, I really did - mostly because then we’d be able to talk for hours about how much we loved this perfect show, all the while punctuating our conversations with more making out! The issue with this plan was that, as it turned out, I didn’t like watching the show… at all. I happened to love making out with this girl, so of course I agreed to watch her very favorite television show (of which she owned the box DVD set, duh). It wasn’t until 2009 - the year I started dating a girl who had great bangs and played the guitar - that the Buffy-shaped doorway in my heart began to crack open.
Ross! Rachel! Come on! In the other free hours of my evenings, I worked on perfecting the art of cradling the cordless phone between my ear and shoulder.
I was every Whedon-fanatic’s nightmare in 1997: I dearly loved the movie version of Buffy the Vampire Slayer (Kristy Swanson?! Luke Perry?! Swoon…), and yet couldn’t have cared less about the television show. Kristin Russo, A-Camp Co-Director, Co-Founder Everyone Is Gay, Co-Host Buffering the Vampire Slayer And we mourned - SPOILER ALERT! - Tara’s death, a lot.īuffy is a queer rite of passage.
We helped you dress like all the women from Buffy for Halloween ( twice!), explained why Willow is one of the best witches ever, got real about Willow and Tara’s devastating breakup, ranked Willow and Tara’s smooching in the context of all queer TV history, and rejoiced when Kristin Russo and Jenny Owen Youngs started their very own (now very famous) Buffy podcast. Remember when Vanessa explored all the versions of her queer girl self through the series? Remember when Riese watched it for the first time four years ago? (It’s doubly-bananas that we still need to spoiler alert this show because people are still finding their way to it after all this time!) We’ve written about Buffy quite a lot over the years. We’re still inspired by Buffy’s speeches, enthralled by Cordelia’s Slytherin hijinks, wooed by Willow’s nerdery, devastated by - SPOILER ALERT! - Tara’s death. It’s bananas to think that, two decades after it premiered, Buffy is still the standard against which we measure all other female-fronted TV shows and movies, all other ensemble action shows and movies, and all other broadcast network lesbian/bisexual storylines. Today is the 20th anniversary of the very first episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, a TV show queer women have more feelings about than all other TV shows combined.